Three Simple Steps To Connect

Three Simple Steps To Connect

As I consider the topics of my blog, I often look at problems that arise with clients, family, friends or those that I recently interacted. I enjoy watching the stories and common themes and, like Twitter, my experience there is a tendency of subjects in life. One currently on the front of the stage is the fear of being authentic in relationships, there is a universal aspiration for meaningful relationships at work, home and socially, and yet people choose to stay away and protected by inadvertently turned off all they aspire to create in their lives.

I wonder if the era of Internet, SMS and Facebook has created the possibility of loosening the personal or social, if these options were formed outside the source of discomfort to be real with others. They benefit from the simplicity and functionality of electronic innovations revolutionized our ability to communicate, seems to have gone down the road is the actual connection. I am surprised that someone opts for a quick text often easier to address the major issues rather than come to talk about the deepest needs of individuals to express.

If you aspire to wealth in your relationship that does not exist now, here are three simple steps you can take now:

Confidence: trust yourself first, you are worthy, amazing and has something to offer the world that nobody can also share what we have with others is not only essential to your happiness is helping others too. Second, the confidence that, despite surface appearances, others feel like you want more and not just how to do it. Taking the first step in opening up a greater connection with others to create the change you want to see in the world. Finally, confidence in the value of the connection to improve their lives. Although not everyone wants to go down this path with you, which create many unforeseen opportunities that can only come after having had the courage to create the connection.

Be real: After taking the initiative to open up to connect with others in a meaningful way, it is important that you honestly have to share with them. Nothing is more powerful that a person is willing to reveal their weaknesses, mistakes, past pain, hopes and dreams with others, because even if you feel like a personal experience of contact with the universal themes of our lives. Reveal that you're a person, who you are and your courage to share, let others do the same, to deepen the connection and give new ideas, attitudes and solutions to evolve in ways not possible without this interaction.

Stay focused on who you are: When you begin to shift and provide an opportunity for greater access, while others around you must adapt to change. Some others are welcome and undocked the changing of the tides. The key is to remain pegged to the value of a genuine connection, and allow others to make a choice that is best for them right now. If you are unsure on how to respond to the person, in particular, return to step one and repeat!

If we have a real connection in our lives, we must first connect to that part of ourselves that we are entitled to know that the dynamic relationships and healthy. As we have our own ability to allow these relationships in our world, we started on the path of its creation in every area of ​​our lives. By following these three simple steps, we can transform the quality of life by increasing the pleasure of being with people you interact with every day. With the greatest respect, open the way to greater satisfaction for all those with whom we interact, and that is the hallmark of an extraordinary leader!

Kathleen Schafer is at the forefront of leadership development for over 20 years of experience. On the ground in the world ups and downs of politics, which has experience in the field, refined and expanded the college of his own journey to create a balanced life, brings significant views on how individuals can develop their leadership potential to create a successful productive and fulfilling lives. Kathleen personal presence of one-on-one coaching, seminars and keynote presentations, to change the perspective of people on what they can achieve and how to walk on it in the real world on a daily basis. Under his guidance, the tools are simple, easy to understand quickly integrate them into your life, start now!

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